Dot com dating – The perfect online dating profile

So you’ve decided that online dating is for you. Now the key is to create the perfect profile to give you the best possible chances in this dot com world. Here are some dos and don’ts for first timers.

DO

Have an opening line
This should be a brief physical description of you. For example: “fit, confident brunette.” This will paint a clear picture of you and be intriguing at the same time.

Use a screen name
Create an interesting screen name to attract attention.

Post a photo
Profiles containing photos are significantly more likely to be visited than those without.

Be up-front
Be realistic about what you expect from a partner. State clearly what a man needs to fit your expectations. This will weed out inappropriate applicants. Also mention your hobbies to give guys an idea of what you’re into and whether you are compatible. For example: “I’m looking for a serious relationship with a sensitive man who laughed through Happy Gilmore and enjoys playing sports on the weekends.”

Be unique
Divulge something original about yourself, like, “cycling on the weekends clears my head, preparing me for the following week.”

Reveal a bit more
Don’t reveal too much but give an insight to your character traits. Give readers a clear idea of your interests. For example, “I love seeing live alternative bands when I can,” not “I love seeing alternative bands and getting so drunk I can’t hear them by the end of it.”

DON’T

Lie!!!!
Honesty is essential. If you do meet a potential partner they’re going to find out the truth eventually and you would have broken their trust. Instead emphasise your good points honestly.

Emphasise the bad
If you’re too critical of yourself people will run the other way. Your profile is definitely not the appropriate place to whinge. For example, instead of complaining about wanting to lose weight, simply say you are curvaceous.

Get personal
Discuss personal issues and baggage with caution.

Overwrite
You should write no more than 200 words. Keep the mystery alive!

Now you’re set to embark into the online dating world. Good luck!

Author: Emily is team member of datingfly.com- Free Online Dating